Now this brings up an interesting observation. I was told twice – not once! – that I go at it too long and too slow. It makes me wonder if there are widely varying differences in how women are sensate.
Well, of course there are; we are all unique (and I know you know this). However, your story does make me wonder if they were also used to a certain way of being attended to in a socialized, habitual way, let’s call it. And you were offering them an alternate to the norm… it’s like things I’ve read that suggest one must patiently re-condition the body to orgasm in different ways. Perhaps, these two ladies were speaking consciously to a defined need or perhaps, their bodies weren’t (yet) used to another way. So many possibilities, really.
Now this brings up an interesting observation. I was told twice – not once! – that I go at it too long and too slow. It makes me wonder if there are widely varying differences in how women are sensate.
Well, of course there are; we are all unique (and I know you know this). However, your story does make me wonder if they were also used to a certain way of being attended to in a socialized, habitual way, let’s call it. And you were offering them an alternate to the norm… it’s like things I’ve read that suggest one must patiently re-condition the body to orgasm in different ways. Perhaps, these two ladies were speaking consciously to a defined need or perhaps, their bodies weren’t (yet) used to another way. So many possibilities, really.